About This Blog

I think it's important to mention a few things about this blog. Everything I write about is based on MY life, views and opinions. I am not here to judge the decisions that others make about their own marriages. I can only speak for what I believe is right for me and my situation. I also strongly believe that people that are in marriages that involve violence or substance abuse should seek appropriate professional help IMMEDIATELY - before even considering any kind of reconciliation. Lastly, even though I no longer believe that falling in love is something that just happens, I am a deeply spiritual person and believe that God puts people in our paths so that we may learn from each other and help each other get to the next level of personal growth. So, although I believe I chose D because of the dysfunctional family history I have, I also believe he and I are meant to learn something VITAL from each other. Regardless of whether we end up staying together forever, I know in my heart, we are not done yet.